Walking Between Seasons

Warming up to spring with Mistress Selah

Mar 21, 2025

Professional dominatrix Mistress Selah of NYC wraps fur around her hooded submissive. Her grip is strong and tender. She looks down at him and holds him securely. She is dressed in black lingerie and nude nylons.

Come to Mama.

I don’t know about you, but winter felt simultaneously like 10,000 years and a single blink of the eye. For Me, it was a classic winter, complete with the blues with the added edge of political dread (I’m just being honest). To spend time with eager eunuchs, nervous newcomers, and merry masochists got Me through. Here’s a highlight reel of the last couple of months:

Vail, Colorado

In February I returned to Colorado, but this time I opted for a brief visit to Vail. And I was treated well by y’all! A 24 hour getaway, including a day on the slopes, delicious outdoor meals with snowy mountain views and heaters, and an extended bondage and edging scene… complete with multiple visits to the outdoor hot tub. I enjoy connections of all lengths, right down to hour long sessions (there’s something special about a lunch hour rush!), but I could get used to the spoiling sub V treated Me with. I felt like a true Goddess, and for this experience I am so grateful. Additionally, while in Vail, I snowshoed for the first time, took brisk runs in the snow, and drank plenty of coffee by the fireplace while watching the snow gently fall. Returning home to some of My most familiar subs felt like a warm embrace; our time together is so sacred to Me, whether W/we are meeting for the first time in a truly extravagant manner in a different state, or hopping in the dungeon in downtown Manhattan for O/our 20th monthly rendezvouz, building upon hours and hours of play time. I am so lucky to meet y’all in so many different ways.

a snowy mountain view off a highway in Colorado

One of My favorite views.

Mommy/baby time

At the end of February, My darling little from out of town came to visit Me, and W/we had a seriously delicious Mommy/baby weekend. Cuddles, tummy time, a divine meal of duck and oysters, and plenty of bloodletting and bootblacking. A play dynamic developed over many encounters just gets richer and richer. I’ve been savoring the special memories W/we made.

A beautiful fair skinned woman with shoulder length brown curly hair wears a leather jacket and smiles at you. You are her dinner date across the table. There are lights and greens strung all around the ceiling and walls, and heatlamps, as you are eating outside

I make a damn good dinner date. Can you tell how happy the little one who took this picture makes Me?

Ceclia’s Act

I joined over 120 others with DecrimNY in Albany, New York a few weeks ago to speak with representatives about supporting Cecilia’s Act, a bill that would both decriminalize sex work AND amend all previous offenses for prior convictions in the state of New York. If you’re on this newsletter, you should be informed about decriminalization as the best model for liberation (both as a client and a worker), and you should be supporting this bill. Read more about it here.

Three masked friends hold signs saying "sex work is work" while smiling with Smokey The Bear, holding a thumbs up

Alongside Leo Lovely and King Leo in Albany. Smokey approves this message.

Structure and Regularity

Between these exciting moments, I’ve thankfully had a solid routine of waking up, drinking coffee, practicing whips and ropes, and getting on the phone with you pervs. The best days include dungeon visits! Recently, I’ve enjoyed a role play session of a sex-expectant first date turned into mummification tease, several pegging sluts, and a nasty foot fetishist who enjoys My post workout feet.

Looking forward:

Film premiere in Athens

I’m thrilled to share that a film I scored for ColorBlock Films, “Sanguine,” is premiering at Athens Pornographic Films Festival! I could not be more honored to compose and produce for this film specifically, as it features one of My favorite painful pleasures: needles. It’s not available for viewing quite yet, but follow ColorBlock on socials to stay in the loop for release. Many moons ago, music was a regular part of My creative practice. Incorporating composition into My life again by scoring porn has been a beautiful merger of My worlds, and I’m looking forward to more opportunities to do so.

Chicago? Boston? Denver? Right to your door?

I haven’t had the travel bug in many years, but planning visits and meeting new subs over the last six months has whet My appetite. Keep an eye out for upcoming visits to Chicago and Denver, as well as My first visit to Boston! If you are in one of these cities and want priority booking during My jaunt to you, you are more than welcome to sponsor My travel your way. And a reminder that My curls, My bush and My sharp tongue are ALWAYS available for train travel or Fly-Me-To-You (FMTY) quotes! Where else shall I be meeting you and ruining you?

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Dominatrix Mistress Selah of New York dressed head to toe in black leather and fishnets. She crouches down and holds her brown curly hair above her head looking straight at you. Her black leather boots are in view, calling to you to be under them.

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